You have to understand more about females before you go ahead with this topic. Unlike men who get turned on easily and then ejaculate and get turned off as quickly, women take longer to get turned on. Unlike men, they stay turned on for longer periods. In fact, women get aroused slowly. It is just like turning up the volume control of the radio slowly.

It is only when they are at their peak or s£xual eagerness should one attempt copulating with them since this gives them the greatest pleasure. Wait till she begs.

Do you know that you can turn her on without even touching her? So if you’re looking for ways to increase your other half’s s£xual desire, it could be time to think outside the box with one of these techniques below.


  1. Sniffing her sensual points: There are many actions a man can do to make a woman go wild. Just smell her hair and breathe ever so lightly on the name of her neck. This is one of the best ways to excite a woman without touching her.
  2. Get close to her and yet: Lie down close besiege her and bring your mouth close to her honeypot, but do not make any contact yet. Instead, breathe heavily and let the breath from your nostrils tickle her sensitive points. This will cause her to squirm in agony.
  3. Play with your own organ: Keep yourself at a safe distance from her and turn on a hot adult movie. Being careful that she is observing you, start undressing and then following the actions of the model on the screen, start fondling your manhood slowly.

Do not overdo it and allow her attention to be riveted on your manhood. If she tries to approach you, just further the distance stroking your manhood at all times. This will really drive her wild and she will orgasm faster than you can think possible.

    The look on your face is very important when trying to arouse a woman. Especially when you approach her (when delivering your first words) or when you compliment her.

When you look deep into her eyes, she feels that you’re at ease with what you’re saying.
She feels that you’re honest.
She feels that you’re authentic.
She feels your dominant personality.

So when talking to a girl you want to seduce, look right into her eyes. This way, you’re going to captivate her. She’s almost going to feel hypnotized.

Look tell a lot. So look her deep in the eyes and don’t look away. Wait until it’s her who looks away.


This is something you say to the girl that implies that you’re going to enter a relationship (romantic and/or s£xual) at some point.

For example:

“You’ll have to take this off when I introduce you to my mother.” (by pointing at one of her clothes)

To ensure that your projection is well received, you can deliver it with a playful tone.
A ballsy projection allows you to subtly turn on a girl you like by getting her to imagine various romantic scenarios with you.

If you’ve been wondering how to arouse a woman, try this out.


You can turn a girl on by talking about s£x. If you’re at ease with that, you can openly talk about s£x.

Talking about s£x allows you to arouse the girl by making her think about s£x.
It gets her to picture s£xual scenarios into her mind.

You stimulate some areas of her mind and you can almost get her wet.

For instance:

“My friend couldn’t sleep last night; she was woken up at 3am by neighbours who were copulating.” Then you add, “They were making so much noise, the girl must have been banged hard!.”

By stressing s£xual words such as “copulating,” “banged,” and the like, you get the girl to feel and imagine the scenario and get turned on.

  1. Send her text (S£x chat)

The best texts to turn girls on are s£xual messages. S£xt messages. But not just any s£xt messages…

The most effective text messages to turn on girls are text messages containing exciting words.

Words that are likely to arouse the mind of the girl. Because women are excited by words.

Words arouse their imagination.
Girls can think about many exciting things.

They can interpret the words they hear in a way that is going to turn them on. It’s private and there’s no social pressure.

One of the advantages of the texting is that it stays between you and her. This way, the girl can let go more freely, without being afraid of being judged by her friends.

For instance:
“It’s was nice meeting you, I can’t help thinking about your hips… I couldn’t really concentrate on my work today, you’re a bad influence on me young lady.”


You can create s£xual tension by polarisation.

That is to say by implying that YOU are a MAN, and that SHE is a WOMAN.

The key is to make her feel that she’s a woman and that you’re a man.

She must feel like a woman and, above all, she must feel that YOU are a man.

This is going to awaken her feminine nature and arouse her. She’s going to think about s£x.

For instance:

“You have a pretty dress. If I had been a girl, I would have bought the same. But unfortunately I can’t, I am a man.”


Better get practising your best jokes, because making a girl laugh is a sure-fired way to turn her on.

It is well known that making a woman laugh can take you a long way. Unlike some of the other things mentioned on this list, it probably doesn’t generate as much “arousal” but it will draw a woman more to you.

We all like to smile, so learning how to have a good sense of humor is a great thing to strive for. You don’t have to be stand up comic funny, and have jokes ready to go.

Just remember that laughter is good for the soul and can definitely help you appear more attractive to a woman.


This is one of the most important, if not the most important factor in turning a woman on and gaining her attention.

Confidence is s£xy. Women love it, and the same goes for men. If you lack confidence your energy isn’t likely to arouse her one bit.

You have to see the value in who you are, and be comfortable with who you are. Just don’t confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence presents itself, arrogance tends to have to announce itself.

Showing Desire Not Desperation.

You may have guessed everything on this list up to this point. This right here doesn’t get talked about enough but it sure can make a difference between turning her off and turning her on.

A woman likes to be desired (hopefully respectfully) but when you start to look desperate, that just isn’t a good look.

Understanding how to show desire without crossing the line of desperation will work in your favor. Coming off as “thirsty” (I know that term gets abused and misused a lot) will probably leave you with nothing to drink.


Non physical attributes play a big role in generating attraction with a woman.

Also don’t forget that Appearance, Ambition, Assertiveness, Communication, Intelligence and Good hygiene are good things for a man to implement in his life, and it can be a benefit for him with more than just women (i.e. career).


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